I did not win Nano this year. I did not really try. I somehow knew that it was not going to happen this year. So, I made a deal with a friend that we would have a novel written by January 31. I have not been working on it much lately. I took a week off for Christmas, thinking I would sit around and write like a fool for 5 days. Nope. I tried everything. More coffee? Check. More beer? Check. More food? Check. More sleep? Check. Silence, music, TV, no husband, husband sitting beside me, kitchen, living room, dining room. Nope. Nothing. Writer’s block at every turn. My brain would not compute the story. I had the beginning. I had the end. I had the characters. And I love my characters. They’ve been talking to me for years now. But I had no middle. So, I’ve been moping about, procrastinating, doing lots of other things. Cleaning, ugh. I hate cleaning. It’s like having your fingernails pulled out one by one, only more annoying. But I’ve been doing it just to avoid sitting at my computer. To avoid staring at my empty screen. To avoid the anger and hate for myself. I got so mad at myself for wasting time. For not doing more in the finite days I’ve been gifted. I did make myself sit for a few minutes each day with nothing but Scrivener on my screen. But still nothing. Then today, I had an epiphany.
As a photographer, I know that sometimes you cannot get that shot. There are times when you see something, but shooting that photo is not an option. You don’t have your camera. Or maybe the light just won’t work with the equipment you have. Face it, sometimes you just can’t get it. But it eats at you. You remember that moment. You know how that will look in your camera. You know you have to get it. So, you either go back and wait for the light to hit again. Or you stage it. You force it. You make it happen. And there are times when you have to shoot it a hundred times to get it right. But you keep trying. I’ve been to one location in Knoxville three different times, trying to get the shot I need. But it hasn’t happened yet. Yes, I’ve gotten some good ones. But not THE one. Then there are times you are limited by your environment. Maybe there does not seem to be anything great going on there. But if you just change your perspective, you might find it. There have been times that I’ve took a photo, thinking that’s going to suck. It’s going to be boring and the light’s going to suck. But you get it home and wow it looks incredible. And sometimes that photo sucks coming straight out of the camera. So, you have to go into Photoshop and up the contrast or saturation or take out that power line. It’s not always perfect right out of the camera. And sometimes it’s not perfect coming right out of my brain.
With writing, you have to do something similar. You have to get the idea down. Just write the sentence. One word at a time. You have to force it sometimes. I will write. I will write words. I will write sentences. I will write hundreds of them. Then, I will go back and rewrite them until they are right. I have to just get the idea down.
Don’t be so hard on yourself! Maybe when you quit trying to force it, it will begin to flow naturally!
You can do it. Let yourself enjoy life… Then your writing will become a joy rather than a chore!!
(kats know about these things)!
…. Catnip helps, too….
Maybe putting some words down will break the dam and the words will rush out. I hope they do for you!
You might find some help in community. I’ve joined several writing forums but my favorite is My Writers Circle. They not only help with questions, but are very supportive in your endeavors as well. Only real drawback is that they are based in Britain and many of the members spell funny. 🙂
Thanks for the tip. I’ll give it a try.